Being a Tough Bitch does not mean you should forsake everything that you once kowtowed to. Dropping your children on the side of the road so you can be wild and free is generally considered to be bad form. Being a Tough Bitch means configuring your priorities to suit what you believe they should be. No, not what your pastor thinks they should be, not what society says they should be, not what your husband thinks they should be. What YOU think they should be. I can guaranfuckingtee you, on that list of where things should be, you don’t honestly believe you belong on the bottom either. If you do, there’s self esteem things at play and you need to hit up a few of the other posts I’ve made.
No, I’m not going to tell you what your priorities should be, that’s your own dilemma and something only you can answer. My only rule is that you can’t be on the bottom. Hell, you’d better be in the top 5, if not #1, or you need to try again. Now make that list.
Got your list? good. Now start rearranging your life and your actions to FIT those priorities. Don’t say one thing and do another, act on it. Your kids come first? Prove it, spend time with them. You husband come in second, only after you? Prove it. I’m willing to bet Internet time didn’t even make the list (no, don’t drop this blog, dammit, you know what I mean.) Arrange your actions to suit your priorities.
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